Easy Tips to Achieve Your Goals

Last January, my husband and I received pedometers as a New Years gift from our son.  He was nudging us towards more exercise.  It worked.  Why?  I think there were two reasons--we had daily visual cues and a goal buddy.  Our fitbit pedometers provided us with a daily visual of the amount of exercise we were getting.  We set a target of 15,000 steps a day.  My husband was my goal buddy and we held each other accountable for reaching the 15,000 steps.  Six months into this experiment, I lost my pedometer.  Within a month, my steps took a significant drop.  I had lost my visual cue and when my husband couldn’t see my steps, he stopped holding me accountable. I just bought a new pedometer, I’m sure I’ll once again reach my exercise goal.  

I’m someone who needs to build support and structure around my resolutions.  This applies to most areas of my life.  I’ve used similar strategies to achieve my writing goals.  Creating visual cues and having a goal buddy has kept my writing on track.

Here are a few strategies to boost your writing life.
1.       Create visual cues that remind you of your writing goals. 
a.       Design a vision board.  Put pictures, words and phrases that represent your story and your publishing goals.  Are you hoping for a book contract?  Draw a contract on this board. You can create a vision board for one manuscript or your whole writing life.   Enjoy the process.  Arts and crafts are good for the soul of a writer.
b.      Stick post-it notes all around your house...on your nightstand…bathroom mirror…computer.   Write the title of the book or project and your goal. (Finish first draft by Feb 1st; identify two ideas for marketing plan by Friday)
c.       Use mind mapping to outline all your projects.  See the post by Shirley Corder on mind mapping and writing.  She hand drew her mind map.  I prefer using software like freeplane or freemind.  Below is a mind map of my children's writing projects.

2.       Find a goal buddy to connect with once a week or every other week. 
a.       Find an online partner.  Instead of exchanging manuscripts, share a weekly goal and then check in once a week to discuss your progress.  A goal buddy should help you establish achievable goals for the week.
b.      Phone a friend.  Select a friend that you’ll call the same time each week to discuss your weeks accomplishments and set your goals for the coming week.

These techniques provide me with the structure I need to stay disciplined in my writing.  What strategies have you used to boost your writing? 

Mary Jo Guglielmo is a writer, teacher and intuitive life coach. She helps clients push through their blocks, envision their path and take the necessary action to live their True North. 

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Magdalena Ball said...

All excellent tips, Mary Jo. Pity no one has yet invented a "fitbit" for writers with a way to log and share our "daily words".

Shirley Corder said...

Thank you for the reminder, Mary Jo. Yes, mind-maps work well, as does having an accountability partner. I had one in England for several years and then she got married and stopped writing. Sigh!

Heidiwriter said...

Great ideas. Visual cues and having someone to help you be accountable are both big helps!

Mary Jo Guglielmo said...

Love that idea!

Mary Jo Guglielmo said...

So what keeps you on track these days Shirley?

Mary Jo Guglielmo said...

Heidi, I have a lot of simultaneous projects, so I really need the visual cues.

Joan Y. Edwards said...

Dear Mary Jo,
What neat and creative ideas! Thanks for sharing them with us.

You are a jewel.
Celebrate you
Never Give Up

Karen Cioffi said...

Mary Jo, great tips and strategies to use to keep our writing on track. Visuals really do help as reminders and motivators and for guidance.

Mary Jo Guglielmo said...

Thanks for stopping by Joan

Mary Jo Guglielmo said...

For me, visuals keep things from slipping away during the day.

Anne Duguid Knol said...

hi Mary Jo--I like visuals but my editing seems to do best with a list of tasks which I score off in jolly colours when done. When I write and set word counts, I paste a jolly sticker on the calendar on the days when I achieve my word count and add a star when I exceed my word count. Works for me :-)

Linda Wilson said...

Thanks Mary Jo, I've tried lots of things but not the visual mapping. I think I'll try mapping out my goals on a large piece of poster paper. See where it gets me! Your post help me get motivated!

Anonymous said...

Thank you for this helpful post, Mary Jo, especially the various ways of having a "buddy." You offer some good alternatives to the typical writing friend you meet with and trade manuscripts for responses. Sometimes the best help is to just have someone to check in with and be accountable to for doing pages and meeting deadlines.

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