More Help for New Writers - Patience

Last month we looked at ways for new writers to handle rejection.

Another important topic for discussion is patience. Without it, you will become disappointed and give up. 

I like quick results. When I taught K-4th grade art classes, I chose projects the students could take home later that day (unless we were working with clay or paper mâché). When I was asked to teach a drawing class for high school, I learned about process and the patience it requires.

Building a writing career is a process. There are very few overnight successes. Whether you are freelancing, writing for magazines, or writing a book, there are slow and steady steps which require patience for success.

Step 1 - Starting a blog

In early 2012, the first step I took in my writing career was creating a blog. It helped me be serious about what I wanted to do: build my platform. That means writing to a specific audience on a topic I am passionate about and gain credibility. It's been a slow and steady process, but I have a good following and readers from all over the world.

Once we create our blog, we're pretty proud of it. The layout, colors, font, and photos reflects our personality. It's like welcoming someone into your home and making them feel comfortable.

But after about a week or two, we wonder where our followers are. 

Statistics state, in 2012, there were over 173 million blogs and climbing. Finding you by chance is slim. Dedication takes patience and you need both to gain followers. When you get published, readers will either know who you are through your blog, or you will have a place for readers to land and know more about you.

Step 2 - Educating yourself

Another step is learning all you can. Technology is always changing and it's important to keep current. Learn how to do cover letters, how to get published, how search engines work, and more. You don't need a degree to be a successful writer but it can only help to take some courses. Many online are free or very affordable. 

I realized the value of this as I began writing. Be cautious of thinking you have a gift and can jump right in. You're a small fish in a big pond. Don't let this scare you, just do your homework. 

Step 3 - Waiting, waiting, and more waiting

I think we're all pretty conditioned to be impatient in today's world.  

Ask any writer who submits their work to magazines. It's typical to be told it will take 6+ weeks to be contacted regarding acceptance of your work. Sometimes you are not contacted at all. Many successful authors submitted their manuscript to several publishers before they landed a contract.

The key is not to give up. If you get discouraged easily, it may be because of impatience.  

You've heard it before: slow and steady wins the race. Your goals will be reached when you are patient. Celebrate your small successes along the way until the day you reach the finish line!


After raising and homeschooling her 8 children and teaching art classes for 10 years, Kathy has found time to pursue freelance writing. She enjoys writing magazine articles and more recently had her story, "One of a Kind", published in The Kids' ArkYou can find her passion to bring encouragement and hope to people of all ages at When It Hurts


Anne Duguid Knol said...

Dear Kathy, another wise and wonderful post and so true--we keep wanting the quick fix and instant feedback. If I did more writing and less checking for feedback, I'd do far more and build opportunities for greater results. :-)

Kathleen Moulton said...

Annie, I feel so privileged to get a comment from you. : )

Good point- more writing and less checking for feedback!

Unknown said...

Your post provides a good dose of motivation for writers. I'd like to share three quotes from those souls who EARNED their triumphs:

1. "People often say motivation doesn't last. Neither does bathing -- that's why we recommend it daily." Zig Ziglar

2. "Everything comes to he who hustles while he waits." Thomas Edison

3. "Excellence is an art won by training and habituation. We do not act rightly because we have virtue or excellence, but we rather have those because we have acted rightly. We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act but a habit." Aristotle

Kathleen, I appreciate your insight on how you used your blog to fuel your growth as an author.

Debra Toor, author of Survival Secrets of Turkey Vultures;

Kathleen Moulton said...

Debra, thanks! I like the Edison quote.

Carolyn Howard-Johnson said...

Kathy and Deb: Team that inspiration and motivation with persistence! I can't tell you how many writers I've seen give up on either writing or marketing just before all their hard work was going to start paying big dividents. (-:
Carolyn Howard-Johnson
Multi Award-Winning Author of the HowToDoItFrugally series for writers including the second edition of The Frugal Book Promoter ( and the new paperback release of the second edition of The Frugal Editor (

Kathleen Moulton said...

Thanks, Carolyn. I know this to be true. I always think of "The African Queen" when that boat is stuck and they get so tired of paddling - and the camera pulls back to what they can't see - feet away from the open sea.

Never. Give. Up.

Karen Cioffi said...

Kathleen, you hit on three important elements every writer needs" a blog, knowledge (ongoing), and patience. Your example of "The African Queen" is a great example of persistence, which is another writing element all writers need. :)

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